Dumpers Perspective Reddit. They usually happen in order, but jumping around within the st
They usually happen in order, but jumping around within the stages is I know there are many different reasons for a breakup, but I think the vilifying of dumpers on here is unhealthy. Life is too short not to. Experience from dumpers perspective? As some who is recently the dumper, I’m so curious about the inner world of the dumper. Thanks for the post OP. Something that crossed my mind after telling someone to go no contact, what’s the difference between a dumper going no contact themselves (to heal, think about everything, etc) 101K subscribers in the ExNoContact community. First of all, if you read my story, I was 64 votes, 21 comments. Firstly I’d like to say breakups feel and hit everyone differently there’s no one size fits all. . It’s funny, I always thought that being the dumpee was worse, because you had no choice in the matter and it could have been sprung on you. While the regret timeline may have unique nuances depending on your relationship, there are several stages of dumpers remorse. 273K subscribers in the BreakUps community. Ex No Contact is a breakup support group focused on self-reliance and general healing. Just proposed to my gf after I broke up with her, we stayed broken up for 3 months and both Alternative dumper’s perspective: at one point, you really did love and value this person (hence why you were dating them), but people either grow together or grow apart. My ex boyfriend 17 votes, 16 comments. To my dumpee friends - from a dumpers perspective I see a lot of posts about dumpees wondering if their ex still crosses their mind, if they hold any remorse for their decision and how they moved on so 26 votes, 21 comments. Even a relationship that isn't abusive/super toxic can just not work. Adding onto the recent posts asking about how the dumper feels, and some responding with their insight, I thought I could provide my insight and maybe someone has advice for me too. I got dumped in the Explore how no contact affects female dumpers psychologically, influencing emotions, decision-making, and long I have been in so much mental and emotional pain, depressed, suicidal since he broke up with me on June 15th and it looks like he has moved on already and posting how is feeling great on social media Should the dumpee ever be the one that reaches out and ask the dumper if they want to get back together? Firstly I’d like to say breakups feel and hit everyone differently there’s no one size fits all. It wasn’t like I broke up with him out of the blue, I really wanted to work things out and I Dumpers perspective: Give them another chance if you love them and they want to try. Many of us feel resentment toward our dumpers, but I'm convinced that dumpers are not villains and I'd like to really dive into a dumper's perspective to understand more, really trying to empathize. Ongoing support for break ups. but over the course of the [Bearing in mind that the dumpee has maintained their silence] To be a bit more specific, how do or how would you feel when the breakup wasn't caused by a toxic relationship, a fight etc, but was brought That being said, I wanted to shed light on some common themes I see in this community regarding dumpers and what the timeline looks like from my experience. trueThe Dumper's Perspective - From a Dumpee who is back with the ex This is for the dumpers. Where are most dumpers at this point? You've been the dumper and you probably haven't regretted any of those that you have chosen to leave? Hate having to move on and them having zero regrets about leaving. I think the dumper can sense how the dumpee was so lovely and emphatic, but most dumpers are supply seekers or twist some other narrative in their minds. If you're a male who has dumped someone, especially due to mental health issues, I'd like your insight. 80 votes, 108 comments. Good relationship overall but a lot of stress related to logistics/future issues. I know everyone is different. It wasn’t long before I’d began feeling the dumper’s remorse. but over the course of the last couple months I’ve reflected a lot and just wanted to share how it’s felt to be on the What really pissed me off was that he made me out to be the bad guy after we broke up, because I was the “dumper”. My ex expressed constant confusion about if From a dumpers perspective, what is the reasoning for the breakup? All the things that you normally dump someone for- infidelity, bad communication, lack of effort- he did those things. Our members I am the dumpee, and I am wondering if anyone on here has some perspective from the dumpers side? Does anyone here have a different outlook on no contact from the other side? Is it hard for you too? The advice columns say things like "people can't accurately predict what makes them happy" and that the dumper is going to realize the grass on the other side is different, but it's not necessarily better, We would like to show you a description here but the site won’t allow us.